Sunday, May 1, 2016

Cousins, Friends, A Marathon - #Celebrate 5/1/16

It is the weekend, and even though most people post their celebrations on Saturday, I'd like to post mine today. Thanks so much to Ruth for hosting all of these celebrations and giving us a forum.


I read recently that cousins are some of your very first friends. I'm not sure if that is exactly true, but I do know that from an early age, my cousins were a huge part of my life. My mom came from a family of eleven brothers and sisters, most living within an easy 45 minute car drive from our house. I have incredibly fond memories of much time traveling to and from cousins' houses for family visits, or to have overnight stays. As fun as those early memories are, it is even more sweet when those cousin relationships continue to grow into deeper friendships as we are now adults.

I'm sad to say that, with the deaths of both of my parents in the last 18 months, and all the grieving and issues that needed to be dealt with, I have only seen these special people at my mom's calling hours, her funeral, and then again, last July, at my father's calling hours.

I am celebrating that the drought of not seeing them has come to an end. A group of those adult cousins gathered at a Mexican restaurant this past Friday. There was laughter, oh yes, there was lots of laughter. There were hugs given multiple times, but definitely as we gathered in the beginning, and then again, as we left. There was talking, sometimes multiple conversations at one time. There was a lot of catching up to do; it was difficult to know which topic to tackle next. There were tears as we shared about health, children, worry about parents, loss, and much more.

But, most importantly, there was love. And that love is both a gift and a celebration.


I took a personal day this past Thursday, and spent the day with my friend from college. We began at the newly renovated art museum in our city, did lunch, and then browsed in the North Market, a space filled with a bounty of specialty foods.

At the museum, we made it to each and every exhibit, making time to discuss works of art that spoke to each of us, and allowing ourselves to be awestruck by the genius of the various artists. The exhibit of the featured artist, Melvin Edwards, is an area we spent a lot of time, reading about each of his pieces, and then bringing our life experiences to each piece to help us understand. I was amazed at his use of welding iron materials, chains, and barbed wire to make statements.

We had a delicious lunch at the new museum cafe, and then strolled the courtyard to discover even more wonderful pieces of art.

The North Market found us sampling, tasting, and buying many things. No plans for dinner that night?? -- no worries! We had it covered with our samples of this and that!

But, as fun as the art experience and food browsing was, much like with my cousins, it was the time to be together that made this a spectacular day. And it is a huge celebration that, almost 43 years after we first met, we are the kind of friends who are family. Another gift in my life.

A Marathon

Our youngest daughter ran the Nashville marathon yesterday, and got a Personal Best Record for her time. She had worked and trained with diligence. And then yesterday, she had to overcome some obstacles along the way - a delay of the start for 40 minutes due to lightning in the area, rain (heavy at times), humidity, and hills. If you've ever been to Nashville, you know there are hills everywhere, and over a 26.2 mile course, she ran many of them.

So, I'm very proud of her, and this accomplishment. I am celebrating for her diligence, her perseverance, her strength, and her PR.

I look forward to this next week, and whatever celebration awaits!


  1. Wonderful celebrations - cousins, an dear friend, and a personal best for your daughter's marathon. Hooray for the love between cousins and friends (our chosen families)!

  2. Karen,
    I love your voice throughout these celebrations. I'm struck by the way time is a friend for deep relationships. I'm glad you corralled these today. I'm blessed because of it.
    PS -- And a PR in those conditions!?! I'm sure you've spoiled her properly! LOL!

  3. So wonderful about your daughter's achievement, Karen. Wow! It sounds like it was even more challenging than one in sunshine! As for cousins, I am the only one far away & my cousins meet regularly. I'm in touch with most of them, and will try to make one of their 'dinners' this summer when I visit my brother. They, as you wrote, are so special. Glad you had fun with your friend, too! Happy next week!

  4. My mom was the youngest in a family of eleven, so I have LOTS of cousins, too. Many of them live close to each other, but I live several hours away. I really treasure the times we get together.
    I love the story of you and your friend. What a wonderful day! And congratulations to your daughter. That is quite an accomplishment, especially in light of all the obstacles.

  5. These seem to be some fabulous celebrations. I have many, many cousins, but don't get to see them often. It's great that you've had time with friends and family. Congrats to your marathon runner. It's amazing to hit a PR when there are hills. :)